-Who knew there was
such a thing as a portable laundry station on wheels?
So as you know there
are many here without power or water still...and it’s been a
while...so yep...the clothes haven’t been washed in a while. Well,
just down from where I’m staying is a church. And yesterday I
noticed there was a bunch of trailers showing up with various church
names on them. But one particular trailer caught my attention because
it said, in BIG letters on the side, “Disaster relief Laundry
Unit.” What? Is this a trailer full of washers and dryers?
Sure is. This group
is from Kentucky. Side of the trailer also said “Southern Baptist
Convention.” Well I’ll be...there’s such a thing as disaster
relief teams like this sent out by church organizations like this to
help in dire times.
Here’s how it
worked...you walk up, hand them your clothes, they give you a tag,
take your name and cell number and then they text you when they’re
all washed, dried and folded. How cool is that? Another much needed
free service that just showed up here two days ago!
-It doesn’t matter
how big the bit is...or how small...ANY little bit will help.
There are levels of
“survivor guilt” happening all over or maybe might better be
called “damage guilt” or “loss guilt”...as in one person’s
loss may be next to nothing while a neighbor or a friend’s loss was
completely everything. And to offset these feelings of guilt, a very
natural human response is...how can I help? I haven’t spoken to
anyone yet that isn’t in a frame of mind of “how can I help.”
And I think this is a testament to just how far reaching this
recovery process is.
I’ve certainly struggled with my own
preoccupation with remaining engaged in the recovery phase. Partly
because we’re surrounded by it. Day-by-day things are ever
changing. As progress is made by utility workers, road crews,
volunteers arriving with donated supplies, volunteers distributing
supplies, and on and on and on.
I’ve also noticed
(because it’s happening to me) that the emotional toll is beginning
to compound.
A few days ago, for
some reason, I was remembering the HBO television series Band of
Brothers (which is based on the true story of “Easy” Company, 2nd
Battalion, 506th Parachute Infantry Regiment of the 101st
Airborne Division as they landed and fought through the Western Front
of World War II).
In episode seven
titled “Breaking Point”, Lieutenant Lynn "Buck" Compton
watches in horror as his close friends William Guarnere and Joe Toye
take basically a direct hit from artillery fire and both of them lose
a leg. It’s a gruesome scene. Buck can’t even utter the word
“medic” for a few seconds because he stood there just completely
stunned by what he was looking at...and then eventually he musters
the ability to cry out “MEDIC!” It was shortly after this , Buck
began to show signs of the “strain of battle” and was pulled off
the line and out of combat.
So here’s the
thing...I’ve watched this series many times...and each time when I
see this unraveling with Buck Compton I’ve wondered, “Why is it
that with some guys these horrors didn’t seem to bother them at all
and with others just a complete shut-down or even sudden blindness
occurred?”
Well, I get it now.
Totally.
When you’re
surrounded by people you know and love who have been harmed in so
many ways by horrible losses or heart-ache and are also grief
stricken yet have to push through re-grouping, recovering and moving
forward...it takes a toll. And we are still discovery things that we
didn’t know have happened here just a few towns over. So this toll
keeps compounding and compounding.
I’m beginning to
fully grasp why taking pause for yourself is a very worthy step
indeed. Whether it’s finding a hot shower (as there are now shower
stations at various locations), eating a hot meal (also available at
many free locations), giving a hug to a stranger or getting a hug
from a stranger, or staring at the sky, gazing at the mountains,
touching a tree...and seemingly little thing like this are a big deal
now. Because it provides relief...even if just for a moment to your
mind and for your heart.
Today, I found
myself watching some people because they were laughing with one
another and it struck me… “Hey, they’re laughing.” A much
needed respite to witness.
-Facts versus
fiction
On the morning of
Friday, Sept 27th it took a little while to figure out
what the immediate issues at hand were and one of the extremely
problematic issues was the loss of communication. Nobody could check
on or check in with their loved ones. Cell towers were
non-functioning and internet service was interrupted. Which also
meant there was absolutely no way to communicate with the outside
world.
Enter the value of
the radio! The only way you could hear what was going on or gather
intel on what had happened in and around the region was by
word-of-mouth or by listening to a good ‘ole fashioned radio.
Here’s the
interesting lesson learned beside the obvious (which is how much we
depend upon cell phones and the internet to communicate and do so
many other things...like banking for instance), I learned pretty
quick that during those first few days...I could trust 100% what
people were telling me because either the person telling me something
had seen it with their own eyes, or they had heard it from someone
who had seen it with their own eyes. When I say there was little to
no misinformation during the first 48-72 hours...I mean that. (Of
course...there also wasn’t a whole lot of information yet either).
And not until the Internet came back up on line and a little time
passed that misinformation started to get bounced around.
While there was
misunderstanding during those first 72 hours...because we forgot what
a cash society looks like for one. Because the internet was
out...stores couldn’t utilize their credit card and debit systems.
Poof, cash only. So follow along with me. When the first gas stations
opened and person “A” pulled up to the pump...realized, oh cash
only...has to go inside...pay...return to the pump...pump
gas...depart. That all took somewhere in the ballpark of 5-10 minutes
right? Now person “b” then “c” then “d” then “e” and
now “f” arrive. Lines backing up. Because these cash transactions
take longer...so then others see the line and think… “there’s a
line at the gas station...I wonder if they’ll run out since only 1
or 2 stations in town are open...I better go get gas too.” And then
before you know it there’s a line a mile long and word gets
out...and the process compounds from there.
The radio stations
had to keep repeating on the air “there’s no gas shortage.”
Which was indeed helpful!
So yes,
misunderstanding created some struggle as well...but...I can also
say, I witnessed some amazing feats of organization and cooperation
during these times. The gas lines eventually became very organized
where there would be only one line...you couldn’t just drive into
the side entrance of the parking lot and grab a pump that opened
up...there were “systems” created on the fly to become more
efficient. Sure there was a little yelling from time to time and horn
honking but what a fascinating thing see unfold.
One of those early
days there were cars lined up to go into town (because of the gas
rush) on the street that goes past where I’m staying. And suddenly
I realized I bet these folks know some things about what’s going on
in and around the area (this was before I had a radio to use) so I
walked down the street and just starting going car to car asking
people what they knew. And then I would tell them what I knew in
exchange. At first people were skeptical, but then when they realized
I was just one of them trying to get the scoop on what was going on
they were more willing to share info.
My oh my...the
lessons learned during these days.
Stay tuned...things
are improving each and every day!